Shaadi… ek simple sa shabd, par poori duniya isi se chalti hai. Chahe India ho, America ho, ya duniya ka koi bhi kone—marriage is important, crucial, sacred and life-changing.
Shaadi sirf do logon ka milan nahi, do parivaron ka milan, do khandano ka milan, aur do naslon ka continuation hai.
💍 Why Shaadi Is So Important?
Shaadi important isliye hai kyunki:
- Shaadi se generation aage badhti hai
- Shaadi se khandan aage chalti hai
- Shaadi se do families ek ho jaati hain
- Human life limited hoti hai, isliye apni virasat safe hands mein dene ka tareeka hai marriage
Reproduction ka ek legal, respectful aur sacred form ko hi hum “shaadi” kehte hain.
👰🤵 Shaadi Ka Sacred Value vs. Insano Ki Add-Ons
Technically shaadi ek sacred, simple aur divine bond hai…
Lekin centuries se logon ne apne-apne rules add kar-kar ke shaadi ko complicated bana diya:
- Caste
- Religion
- Dowry
- Samaj ki expectations
- Wedding show-off
Aaj shaadi apni asli purity se zyada, competition, glamour aur comparison ka center ban gayi hai.
❤️ Types of Marriages – Love vs Arrange
Aaj shaadiyan bhi four categories mein aa gayi hain:
- Love Marriage – jahan ladka-ladki ki khushi sabse pehle
- Arrange Marriage – jahan gharwalo ki khushi priority
- Love cum Arrange / Arrange cum Love – mix emotions, mix approvals
Purane time ki shaadiyan mushkil hoti thi, dowry aur compromise zyada… lekin break kam hote the.
Aaj ke time ladki apne rights janti hai, ladka financial equality dekhna chahta hai—
Balance kahi missing ho gaya.
💸 Modern Weddings – Expense Zyada, Value Kam?
Aaj kal shadiya lakhon, crores tak pahunch gayi:
- Destination weddings
- Rainbow weddings
- Luxury decor
- Pre-wedding shoot
- Couple dance
- Fancy entries
Shaadi bina in sab ke bhi ho sakti hai,
par in sab ke bina “shaadi complete nahi lagti” yeh trend ban gaya hai.
Sach mein, shaadi ek entertainment show ban gayi hai.
🌿 What Is REAL MARRIAGE? (Rea Marriage)
Real marriage sirf aur sirf respect, understanding aur family ki happiness hoti hai.
- Ladki sharm aur haya mein sundar lagti hai
- Ladka sincere aur responsible lagta hai
- Gharwalo ka respected hona zaroori hai
- Shaadi ke mantra samajhna aur unhe jeena zaroori hai
- Shaadi ko nibhana sabse zyada zaruri hai
Shaadi sirf ladka-ladki ka rishta nahi,
poori family ki zimmedari hoti hai.
Sabse bada point:
Ladka aur ladki dono ye samjhe ki unke gharwale alag nahi, ek dusre ke hain.
Yahi Rea Marriage hai – real, pure, sacred and full of values.
