Aaj kal har koi kehta hai “size doesn’t matter” – chahe koi mota ho ya chota ho. Log bolte toh bohot open-minded hain, par sach yeh hai ki bullying abhi bhi band nahi hui.
Size ko lekar logon ki soch abhi bhi utni hi choti hai jitna wo dikhate nahi.
Motey logon par hazaar films, web series ban chuki hain. Short people par bhi movies aati hain, jaise Brazil ki movie “Just Short of Perfect” jisne bada funny way mein dikhaya ki hum jaise short logon ko daily life mein kitni struggles hoti hain — lift ka button press karna, bolt tak reach karna, public places handle karna… sab ek challenge.
Mere saath bhi ek funny but painful incident hua tha — washroom ka bolt itna high tha ki mujhe us tak reach karne mein hi struggle ho gayi. Tab toh funny laga kyunki main akeli thi…
Par agar yeh sab logon ke saamne hota toh?
Bilkul troll ban jaati.
Yahi problem hai.
Log bolte hain “funny hai, cute hai, joke tha” —
par joke ke peeche ka dard sirf wahi samajhta hai jisko feel hota hai.
School ho, office ho, marriage talks ho — size, height aur color ke basis pe log judge karna nahi chhodte. Sab kehte hain:
👉 “Accept yourself.”
👉 “Move on.”
Par jo log apne aap ko perfect samajhte hain — color wise, size wise —
wohi sabse zyada shallow, judgmental aur narrow-minded nikalte hain.
Sach yeh hai:
Jisme jitni kami hoti hai, woh utna hi doosron ko judge karta hai.
Kabhi kabhi lagta hai — “Bhagwan, kaha ho aap?”
At the end, ek hi baat:
Aapka size, color, height kuch bhi ho — doesn’t matter.
What truly matters is your confidence, your kindness, and your self-respect.
Because reality ye hai, duniya hamesha kuch na kuch bolegi. Agar aap perfect bhi ho jao, tab bhi kisi na kisi ko problem hogi. So why lose yourself trying to fit into someone else’s expectations?
Kabhi kisi ki faltu ya negative baaton ko apne upar mat lo. Log aksar apni insecurities dusron par project karte hain, aur hum bina soche unhe sach maan lete hain.
Maine apne bohot precious din un shallow logon ki soch mein waste kiye…
overthinking, self-doubt aur unnecessary comparisons mein.
Aur sach kahun, uska koi fayda nahi tha — sirf loss hi tha.
But the most important thing I learned is this:
jab aap khud ko accept karna start kar dete ho — apni flaws ke saath, apni uniqueness ke saath —
tab dheere-dheere duniya bhi aapko waise hi dekhna shuru kar deti hai.
Because the way you see yourself becomes the way others treat you.
So stop chasing approval.
Start choosing yourself.
Because at the end of the day,
self-acceptance hi wo power hai jo aapki life change kar sakti hai. ✨
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