Pyaar , Shaadi aur Divorce or Trend?
Pyaar, shaadi, divorce…
aaj kal yeh life ke stages nahi, trends lagne lage hain.
Pehle pyaar mein doobe log,
apne doston ko ignore kar dete hain,
apne aas-paas ke logon ko bhi dooba dete hain.
Aur phir shaadi ke baad…
usi pyaar ko khud hi duba dete hain.
Main yeh nahi keh rahi ki har koi apni marzi se divorce leta hai.
Divorce zaroori hai jab marriage toxic, abusive ya non-bearable ho.
Lekin sawaal yeh hai—
jis possessive, emotional pyaar ki wajah se shaadi hoti hai,
divorce ke time woh pyaar yaad kyun nahi aata?
Main divorce ke against nahi hoon.
Main sirf aaj ke casual attitude se agree nahi karti.
Hum Indians hain.
Hum shaadi divorce lene ke liye nahi,
balki zindagi bhar saath chalne ke liye karte aaye hain.
Hamari history, culture aur values yahi kehti hain.
Isiliye toh movies mein bhi suna hai—
“They are Indians, they don’t take divorce.”
Haan, kuch shaadiyaan waakayi tootni chahiye.
Par sach yeh bhi hai ki bohot si shaadiyaan sirf communication, ego, ya misunderstanding ki wajah se toot jaati hain—
jabki unka solution nikal sakta tha.
Aur ek aur cheez jo aaj kal disturb karti hai—
Shaadi ke baad affairs.
Itna common ho chuka hai ki log isse aise ignore karte hain
jaise India ki girti hui currency.
Shadi , Divorce aur Kalyug
Shayad yeh Kalyug hai…
Aur shayad iska anth aise hi chhoti-chhoti cheezon se shuru hota hai—
jab rishton ki value se zyada, options ki value ho jaaye.
Aaj ke time mein Pyaar bhi ek choice nahi, ek comparison ban gaya hai.
Log insaan se zyada “better option” dhoondhne lag gaye hain.
Jahan pehle ek rishta nibhane ke liye sabr hota tha,
aaj wahan thodi si dikkat aate hi “move on” ka button press ho jata hai.
Sach toh yeh hai ki Pyaar kabhi perfect nahi hota…
par log perfect insaan dhoondhte-dhoondhte,
real connection kho dete hain.
Kalyug shayad isliye nahi aaya kyunki duniya badal gayi…
balki isliye kyunki humne apni soch badal li.
Humne loyalty ko boring samajh liya,
aur temporary feelings ko “true love” ka naam de diya.
Aaj har kisi ke paas options hain,
par kisi ke paas patience nahi hai.
Har kisi ko attention chahiye,
par commitment se darr lagta hai.
Aur sabse badi baat—
log Pyaar chahte toh hain,
par uske liye effort dena nahi chahte.
Shayad Kalyug ka asli anth tab hoga,
jab hum dobara se rishton ko replaceable nahi,
valuable samajhna shuru kar denge.
Jab “next option” se zyada “same person” ke saath grow karna important lagega.
Jab ego se zyada understanding jeetegi.
Aur jab Pyaar sirf ek feeling nahi,
ek zimmedari ban jayega.
Kyuki end mein…
options kabhi kisi ko complete nahi karte,
sirf confuse karte hain.
Complete toh sirf sachha Pyaar hi karta hai.
