Pyaar, shaadi, divorce…
aaj kal yeh life ke stages nahi, trends lagne lage hain.
Pehle pyaar mein doobe log,
apne doston ko ignore kar dete hain,
apne aas-paas ke logon ko bhi dooba dete hain.
Aur phir shaadi ke baad…
usi pyaar ko khud hi duba dete hain.
Main yeh nahi keh rahi ki har koi apni marzi se divorce leta hai.
Divorce zaroori hai jab marriage toxic, abusive ya non-bearable ho.
Lekin sawaal yeh hai—
jis possessive, emotional pyaar ki wajah se shaadi hoti hai,
divorce ke time woh pyaar yaad kyun nahi aata?
Main divorce ke against nahi hoon.
Main sirf aaj ke casual attitude se agree nahi karti.
Hum Indians hain.
Hum shaadi divorce lene ke liye nahi,
balki zindagi bhar saath chalne ke liye karte aaye hain.
Hamari history, culture aur values yahi kehti hain.
Isiliye toh movies mein bhi suna hai—
“They are Indians, they don’t take divorce.”
Haan, kuch shaadiyaan waakayi tootni chahiye.
Par sach yeh bhi hai ki bohot si shaadiyaan sirf communication, ego, ya misunderstanding ki wajah se toot jaati hain—
jabki unka solution nikal sakta tha.
Aur ek aur cheez jo aaj kal disturb karti hai—
Shaadi ke baad affairs.
Itna common ho chuka hai ki log isse aise ignore karte hain
jaise India ki girti hui currency.
Shayad yeh Kalyug hai.
Aur shayad iska anth aise hi chhoti-chhoti cheezon se shuru hota hai—
jab rishton ki value se zyada
options ki value ho jaaye.
